gathered some old posts.....hope they help

[albamarie]

"I think all MLCers wake up.

I just don't think they all "own up".

My MLCer has not woken up, but see's some things clear, while seeing other things extremely only through pain and anger.

I don't think I have been DBing as much as I have been trying to run as far away as I can, even if that means by trying to push him far away.

Is it normal for him to say, He want's to be wrong, he want's to be the slug, he want's to be hated by me?

How do we know when it's standing or just being stuck?

I will admit I am still being lead by pride, my anger and guts to want to end it is all is led by pride. When he insists on being friends w/POS is when I am chucking the whole M out of my mouth.


Thanks for posting this. It helps.