I had read part of that post from Amy last year during some of my darkest hours. And it gave me hope.
Looking at it from this side, after my H has come back home, and is mostly in acceptance, I can see that he had the same profile of emotions as did Amy.
Staying was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.
And now...I needed the reminder today to forgive him and let his past go. Forgiveness isn't a one-time action. I think it's a verb...a state for mind. We keep forgiving.
Thanks again
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway