Fog City Coaster continues

[2ndtimearoundCA]

I applaud your efforts. But I caution you,

Either follow the DB approach OR follow another. Not both or many.

Don't seek/get conflicting advice and strategies that negate each other or confuse the heck out of you so you are paralyzed.

I do feel a bit paralyzed by conflicting strategies.

I have been thinking about this .. Honestly I am not even sure how DBing applies to my situation anymore. Other than working on me to become a better person, getting a life, and, doing what works.

I would some up my situation like like this "attempting to build a new relationship with someone I used to be married to"

When it comes to doing what works.. Seems like that could be anything as long as it works. I haven't read any other books at this time, but a few have been recommended (Dobson). I have scratched the surface trying to learn about attraction.. I like to go to the source material when I learn about a concept .. I go straight to the peer reviewed psychological literature journals etc.