Ambivalent, We know you are trying different things to become a better person and someone that your h will want to come home to. However, mlcer's view things differently and can sense when we are trying to hard or using different techniques to "win" them back. That's why it is important to keeps simple and just be yourself.
Can you remember how you were when you met your h? That is where you start. What did the two of you enjoy doing together? You have to become friends again and I think your interest in hunting is a start. Using a bow is not difficult. If you own a bit of land, get yourself a nice target from any store that handles hunting equipment. I just recently got one for my nephew from Dick's. He is learning how to use a bow and I've been working w/him on his aim.
You might mention to your h that you would like to learn how to use a bow and see if he'll suggest a store or go w/you to get a bow.
Ambivalent, just be yourself. Smile and appear interested in whatever he wants to discuss. That is the first step to being a good listener and a friend...both things are what he's looking for. The evening will be a success. I have a lot of faith in you...just stay upbeat and positive.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
