Maybe the vets will say differently but I think she needs to have a taste of what it will be like to have to figure things out for herself. However, if she were to ask for money for groceries that would be different in my opinion as this affects your D as well.
I'm glad to see you are really looking into yourself and learning about you. That is a huge step, keep up the good stuff.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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