So lost and hurt #3

[indigo1]

Thank you mrbond. You always give great insight to my issues. Reading that has quickly change my mindset for the day. What W is calling a string of bad luck (sick,pink eye, accident with her face, accident with her car etc...) I see as a sign from a higher power. Everything has been going wrong for her ever since she kicked me out. Unfortunately I cannot make her see that.

As far as helping her out with the money for the accident she had what do you think? She said that if she has to pay it she wont even have money to buy groceries. I dont know how she is broke though. We have only been sepatated for two months. I have given her $2,000 in that time. Let her keep two tax returns that totaled over $2,000 and I know what she makes. She must just be blowing money on going out and stuff like that because the math certainly does not add up.