hi and hope your day is good. whew - lots of input- i'm with ur and sombodies else who sees myself in you alot- i've been a people pleaser too- find it incredibly difficult to figure out some boundary and then blam it out there.
i love that your h didn't even get upset by it- it says quite alot about it all- him & his r with rt. (i think) i mean- if he was allllllllll in LOOVOOVVVE - he'd want to protect her i'd think. seems like he kind of likes someone leaning on her for a change - rather than merely her leaning on him. idk- anyway- like others here- i'm taking some heart from it and trying to look over self and "stand up and be counted " a bit more.
i'm a people pleaser too- like ur. find it hard as heck to demand respect from others. i actually do not really "get" the bit about people not seeing us for what and who we are and that in and of itself - garnering respect & caring, etc.
know what i mean? like, why in the world have we got to go around bashing people over the head to "get respect"> . i always thought actions speak louder than words- and you certainly have the caring and "good person" actions going on .
oh well huh? another one of those darn real life dopey things that goes on allover the place - no justice and no reason i guess.
anwyay- yay for successful boundaries - i love the shakers disappearing- & find myself wondering this morning if the booties went away for ever or reappear? will await next installment of as the bootie turns.
are ya feelin like kickin butt more? or glad it's over?? just wondering- if such power is addictive and like chocolate- leaves ya wanting more and more???
