I know that me financially pulling my weight is at least part of what my w means by being taken care of. My w is not capable of not working; she would go crazy. She may have a fantasy of having someone make enough money so that she doesn't have to work, but she would work. Also, she has always needed a lot of attention. She would not do well with somebody who worked a lot of hours and had little time for her. So there has to be balance. Right now, I could support us both and she could look for an easier job, but we are not together. I think that there is more to the being taken care of thing than the financial side. I am a 6 foot tall athletic type guy but I could probably do a better job of taking charge and being assertive.
I have met new people as part of my GAL. Not sure if w even knows. We don't have common friends and we are not Facebook friends. Any other ideas on being mysterious?
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
