New to the board, fairly newly LBS from MLC.

[tigerlily78]

Yes Pudmuddle, You are right that coming home to talk to me about her like we are still besties is pretty ridiculous. I have made it clear that I am happy to talk to him about anything under the sun he wants to, except her.

Also, apparently she is "in charge of" his decision to grow his beard out so he will look older. Total Daddy issues and maybe even a subconscious plot to play on his MLC even harder when those gray beard hairs appear. He is already complaining about how itchy it is. I did remind him that he is an adult and owns a shaver, he has the power to go back to being clean shaven whenever he chooses to. *ignore my intense eye rolling here*. Must be nice to be the OW, you don't have to cook or clean or parent, you have time and energy for ridiculous past times like "controlling his personal hygiene decisions." Good grief.