I have placed myself in some sort of strange limbo. I have not continued the text conversations past a reply or two and I have not initiated in a very long time. I have gotten used to the idea that we as a couple are done. But I cannot seem to cut that last tie. To sever contact either by not answering or texting back to buzz off.
You know I'm all about connection, and reaching out to build that until I'm done. Are you done? It doesn't sound like you are to me.
What do you suppose would happen if you asked him to meet up with you?
It's not like you've been chasing him, so I certainly wouldn't worry about that silly game.
In my mind you guys would either meet up, or it would make it a lot easier for you to cut that tie.
At the very least, it would help to get you out of your "strange limbo"... if you're ready for that.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl