NLT, I’m with you here. How do you enforce the boundaries? It is a tough one in your situation. I’ve read all the good advice to you and I still don’t have a clue what would be an effective enforcement. It seems like OW doesn’t have much problem with you, since she waived at you. Or she thinks that you are not relevant. I wonder if he talks to her about you in the same way he talks to you about her, and she is ok with it. If this is the case, he is going to continue the same behavior.
I lean towards Portia’s advice to go dim a little bit, become a little mysterious.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
