Good point about the holidays! My H keeps asking me what my "plans" are for the holidays...and keeps asking if I'll be taking the kids to see his family, since he's not talking to any of them right now. Ugh.
I can see how this time of year makes them act even weirder!
And, Pud, I can understand the costume thing with your K kinda hurting you....but don't let it get to you. He's got to "try" on lots of things before he figures out who he is going to be. I can see shifts in my H's personality, too. It's enough to make us all CrAzY! Lol.