Pud, rH mentioned the other day on my thread that during the worst of MLC with her H, that they BOTH were confused. So true, right???
I think it's hard, in our own way, to have the MLCer at home because it DOES feel normal, sometimes. We start feeling like life is "normal"...our H is at home, acting like a "normal" person for a bit...and then, we just wait for the next bomb drop. We can't ever really completely detach or move on because our H is right there...sometimes right next to us. There, but not really there.
I'm thankful that, for now, my H is still at home where the kids and I can see him everyday. It's a whole other world if your spouse is gone for days, weeks, months, or even years...but I do think what you and I are doing is hard in its own way. We have a front row seat to every little word, action, etc. going on with our H's.
I'm proud of you, girl! You keep hanging in there and being strong. Your H is starting to see some changes in you, I think.
