I've looked at life from both sides now

[complicated]

Hi Raine just checking up on you! I'm hoping that the two of you are still testing the waters. You know it has to start somewhere. I would be happy for just a little affection so starting with cuddling is a start nonetheless. The other times will come but if he was never like that before in public I don't know if that would change that much.

The fact he is talking about the future sounds SO positive Raine. At least he sees himself with you, making plans. It is going to take time but he!! look what you've already been through? But don't push too hard. I feel like maybe I did and he did get scared and run away and I don't want you to make the same mistake. But I agree it seems SO simple, why can't they see how easy the answer is?

I hope your dinner date was great! I'm looking forward to hearing all about it.

Yes, all great stuff. I'm so encouraged to read a few people on here that are having positives in their sitch. Just when I'm about to give in I come on here for encouragement.

I want to thank Wonka for her great advice. I need all of the encouragement I can get. I feel like I am so close to giving up again.