If I still had my Pom-poems from high school, I would be waving them for you!!
I am so happy for you that something released the pressure valve. That blow-up was a long time coming. I am glad you gave it RT and even more glad H heard. Because he is the one that your anger is truly aimed at. I mean, we all know RT us a twit but if not her, than it would be someone else.
And I am totally there for the Bogie coloured Bootie Burning Ceremony!! It not your fault that Russian wool is so tough, they walked out by themselves and ignited in the sunlight. He will have to swallow the story since his is even more incredible. Sleep under the stars. Snort. Well, Siberia is waiting.
Linda, sometimes a little anger - on our own behalf - is a good thing. For me and I hope for you,too that little bit of anger gave me a little more resolve and some self-respect or maybe more accurately feeling of self-worth. Somewhere along the way I lost that. You have been through so much with your optical health and H. Something had to give. I am glad RT presented herself as the punching bag.
And FY, you know I love you like a two dollar whore but no apologies to RT or to H. They would see it as a weakness.