How do you see it any different with your W? It sounds like her sexual orientation is not homosexual or bi-sexual, but simply non-sexual.
That was my speculation about ways to understand how it might seem to be for her. Of course, in her case, she once did appear to like sex. But it has been so long ago that I think she has lost any good memory of what it was like.
It's a way of looking at it that makes it clear how difficult it might be. Might be. But I haven't given up yet.
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If you could take a pill to kill your sex drive, would you?
No. Because then I would feel that I have lost even more. It's part of life. With no sex life, and no desire for it, I would feel like a zombie -- a shell of my former self.
