Ya, well, when H was still with (or hoping to be back with) MG, we had negotiated us switching places on a certain night that I had class. He said "Oh." If it was another night, MG saw her kids that night and wouldn't be around anyway...

Too bad for you, buddy, you offered!!

This is just to say anytime that H did things with us(or kids) when he was with MG, I knew darn well it was because she wasn't around to be with him....so I get it.

Just enjoy the food ;), I would say the company but.....