RL,

I am getting caught up on your posts here. Wow, you really did a 180 with the confrontation. The ow/om are all losers. They have no self respect, no self esteem but they're also determined to get what they want at all costs. The prize isn't necessarily our h's or w's. They can smell a vulnerable person 100 miles away. Once they get what they want from them, they move to their next victim.

I'm still laughing at the salt and pepper/shaker and booties story. I would have put a dash or 10 of the pepper in the pot and before placing them next to it. If you dare touch the booties, I would snip a few threads here and there and let them unravel bit by bit just as their relationship will. My h's ow knitted him a winter scarf earlier this year. She definitely needs uR to give her a few more lessons. The scarf rolls up into a tube when not being worn and doesn't even lay near flat when it's on. When he came to take a few heavier coats and jackets he also took his cashmere/silk scarves. Guess what, the ow scarf is still sitting on the shelf read for me to modify as I see fit. I'm thinking that even HE sees how bu++ ugly that damn scarf is.

Keep up the boundaries. I've tested out a few myself over the past few days. It definitely makes them sit up and take notice.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama