GALbaby and TTD180, many thanks for the positives and good wishes.
I will be enjoying myself and I will be happy and act "me". It is the seeing everyone that will be hard, but I am telling myself I will get through it and I know how and what I should do.
I will be fine.

All the best for you daughters 21st later this month, GALbaby. Believe it or not, but I still don't feel any older because of the party.

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.