Let me just tell you that it sets an extremely bad precedent for when your kids are older. They will not listen to you and think they can get whatever they want. They will grow up to be just like your W and you will not be able to control them.
If you want to have someone in your family respect you, then start with your children.
You mean they'll have to go along with what i decide for them? Like Meal A, Fun Place B, Fun Time C ?
Originally Posted By: MrBond
It's obviously because of the situation. You can't keep treating them like they are adults without feelings. They are children and are missing out on the nurturing portion of their childhood that YOU as her father is supposed to provide. Become the PARENT.
How to even parent effectively when i don't even stay with them anymore? I want to instill my values but i'm facing resistance from MIL and W. My D4 is staying away from me. Don't you think it hurts? I've done everything i can. Hugs. Tell her 'I Love You's more. Talk to her. I help her with her school work but now she only wants her mom. I'd take her out but now she's crying for her mom. She have no problem with me leaving every night anymore.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
