For everything that you've "tried", how many times have you tried them? Did you do something and didn't get a reaction and then figure it doesn't work? Sometimes the situation has to build slowly and while you may not see immediate results, they may be the start of something.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.