Don't know what to think

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Just some random items to help those of you (currently Cadet & BrklynMom)get a better picture of what I've done so far.

I read DR within a month of the BD, and found this website as well where I just read and read post after post. Realized how much I am not alone in this, sadly, but grateful for all the wonderful advice and support given by so many.

I think I've read just about every article there is to find on the internet about MLC/WAS and it all reads the same. Bottom line, don't take it personally, there's nothing you can do as the LBS to 'fix' it, it's their journey, and most of all, give them time and space.

I'm feeling much more comfortable and capable of doing this now after 6 months of feeling rather scattered. And I finally feel like I have detached a little, but am capable of much more.

And I am GAL . . . Baby steps.....