NLW I think you should continue what you are doing and not wonder about the why's of exH just yet. You are the same with or without him. So keep being that wonderful NLW and let what is want to be happen.... While enjoying the meals of course!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home