So lost and hurt #3

[indigo1]

Question for you experts. The more I think about my talks etc.. with my wife the more I have realized looking back is that the major thing holding her back is the lack of her trust in me. She has brought this up many time how she just does not know if she can ever get the trust back and it scares her. Is it possible for me to build back the trust givin my situation? How do I go about doing this while detaching? Or is it just something that once its gone some people can never open up and let you back in?