RL, Tart is not confused one bit. She knows exactly what she's doing and what she needs to do in order to contrive a way to get your h won over. But, the one thing that I have learned is to set your boundaries and keep them in place. Now that you've let her have it, step back and allow him to squirm and try to find a way back into your good graces.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.