WH, Thanks for looking in.

And yes, it's my belief that OW works on Thursday nights, Hence this is the only night of the week he is 'available' to see us.

S15 commented when we got home that it seems 'fake' when we go out with him and it's not very nice.

I'd have to agree. I'm trying to DB, or at least be civil, but the kids see it as us all pandering to XH's weirdness. After what he's done to us, how can we all sit there and 'be nice' as it were?
Makes for an awkward time.

I'm unsure of what I should do.
If this is just more of his cake-eating, then the answer is clear.

But if it's the first tentative step back towards the kids and me... who knows?

I suppose i just have to wait and see what transpires.