There is no time like the present to begin to see this differently...
This is a process.
I can't remember what I was like at three months but I can tell you i am grateful to Mach and others on here who did not hold back on me. If you want to see that JF it's here in my threads.
You move at your own pace but you move quicker with experience of others challenging your thinking.
This stuff is HARD. It will challenge every concept you have about love and marriage.
Sometimes you will be downright p!ssed at some of us. When you do it's time to look inside...
Dig into what stings. Why would we be here? Think about it.
We are here because you are here and because we have been where you are and maybe
Maybe
We can help you see things quicker and get to a place of peace in shorter order than we did.
In any case it is your journey.
You may have seen me post this already elsewhere:
What are you prepared to do for your M if your are not guaranteed it can be saved?
How would you want to be loved? Only when you are calm and peaceful?
Or when you are scared and alone? So scared you run away from the most important people in your life. So confused you risk everything you have built in your life till now.
When do you think you would most need love JF?
What would that love need to look like if you were in that place?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
