Originally Posted By: JonF
I'm trying to be painfully honest - so I post half the time now with a cringe just waiting for people to shake their head, and say, "There he goes again!" smile


Ah...I can tell you that my "chickenshit" rod is now officially broken so no worries there, buddy. wink

You did a good job in your convos with W and defusing things between the two of you. Affirming your love for W was a very important element in ensuring the the road is paved smoothly for W to return to the M. Although I do need to warn you that there may be some fits and starts in the reconciliation process and piecing together as discarding the OM altogether may take some time. Be prepared for some bumps along the way in respect to the OM.

Now after this intense convo, it would be good for you two to step back and take a breather from any further R talks. Regroup and have some fun moments now that Halloween is here. Focus on that with the kids and enter into a chocolate-induced coma! grin Have a happy 'Boo'!

Originally Posted By: JonF
My brain is still in a blender.


Isn't it pureed green peas?! smirk

Well done, Jon!

Word of caution: Please remember to watch for your hair-trigger reaction(s) and rein it back when you sense it creep in your head.