A - I have a question about how you are using your H's top love languages. My H's top love language is touch. I have been staying two feet away from H (no hugs, etc) because I did not want to pressure him in any manner and he previously would have run for the hills if I tried anything. He is softening a bit. I dont want to pressure him but I also am not sure how to use his love language at the same time. Half of the reason we are in this mess if because I ignored his love language for so long.