ssmguy, is there anything that you can think of in reverse? Something where your W has an intense passion for something and you just don't "get it?" Like my H plays golf. Loves. it. While I can't for the life of me figure out what there is to like about it. He's tried buying me the clothes, the shoes, picking out a nice bag, scheduling a time when it's not too early, too crowded, too inconvenient. It just doesn't make any difference. Sure, I like the new clothes, the nice landscaping, the luxurious amenities of the country club. But no matter how he "wraps it up," it's still golf and I simply don't find any appeal in it.
Does your W have anything similar? Perhaps jigsaw puzzles, or stitching, or Bunko, or reading recipe books? I'm pretty certain you don't simply love everything for which your W has a passion.
If you can come up with something, what would be YOUR answer to your question. In other words, what could your W do "around" the act of assembling a jigsaw puzzle that would make you have a passion for jigsaw puzzles (figuratively)?
