Geez Mach, that WAS harsh. JFun has been going thru this 3 months. 3 months after BD, I was a sniveling mess. He's just learning the definition of detaching, letting go, moving forward, for heaven's sake. Of course he does not know anything about MLC, how could he, he has just started his journey. Your advice is great, fabulous for someone who is over that raw newness, but harsh for a newbie to hear.

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17