Take it slow and be careful. She sounds extremely desperate, unsure of herself, clingy, begging, etc. - like she's had her own BD (which sounds like it DID happen).
Let the emotions settle down. Figure out what went wrong that led to the problems in the first place, and make sure you two work on that.
Welcome and validate her feelings, but still be a little guarded with your own. My goodness...you've been at this a long time. Taking it slow shouldn't be too painful.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
