The script has been flipped, its now on her to show it.
If I was in your shoes I would need to see consistent ACTIONS for a while.
Her actions should match her words.
Keep living your life and being you and slow down. Nothing needs to be decided today, this week, or this month.
This^^ is dead on accurate. If she's serious, she won't mind proving it to you. If she's doing this:
Originally Posted By: sandi2
She is simply temperature testing to see if she still has you in the palm of her hand.
...meaning she is NOT serious, her previous behavior leads me to believe that she will become frustrated that you are no longer under her control. She'll angrily call things completely off, but blame you. She'll say that she was willing to R - that she wanted nothing but to be back with you - but you didn't believe her, so you lost your chance.
There are many ways things could pan out, but just in case that happens, don't believe it.
-PM
I agree. Patience has never been one of my W's strengths. It is the hurdle she fell on last time too.
It's something I'm tempted to tell her when the time feels right. If she thinks this is going to be a quick process she's completely wrong.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
