I also have her stated financial split date of November 1 in my head. It hasn't been mentioned since four weeks ago but part of me wonders if I should send her a bill tomorrow for half the boys expenses and tell her she is on her own when it comes to hers. So I either force the issue or let things continue as "normal." Would love to her suggestions.
What did you say to her about this date? (sorry, I looked back but didn't see it) If you stated something about this date to her I think you have to bring it up. To just allow it to pass makes you look inconsistent, or weak. I would not just send her a bill without talking about it first. I also would hope to not have to "force" the issue. You both are getting on good enough to discuss it, I think.
I admire you for your continued strength and standing for your family. A lesser man would've been long gone. Stand tall, my March 2012 BD friend!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
