We meaning both of us. Trying to figure out who is more at fault for distance in our marriage is irrelevant and gets us nowhere. It is what it is and SBT says we need to move on from here.
I do not blame W for failures in our R any more than I am solely responsible. It took 2 of us to neglect it to the point of life support. Maybe I am judging her for her reaction to our R being distant and lacking. I haven't been unfaithful and sought the company of other women. It's very hard to withold being judgmental when you are trying so hard to be a good man and the woman you love is completely lost in a fog.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
