Try to remember that you can't do everything at once. It's baby steps all of the way. If you try too hard, it will only draw attention to what you are trying to accomplish. A little goes a long way...just remember that.
You are right...having a picnic ready would have been AWKWARD!
The tiniest casual " hey would you like me to make you a sandwich..." REEEEEALLY was appreciated. Asking before hand seems to be a great strategy. It lets them make a decision, and allows for feedback.
He is craving having someone care, think of him. Being non chalant about it lets his needs to be addressed but not in such an overt or in your face way.
Your advice...priceless! Thanks again.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
