New to the board, fairly newly LBS from MLC.

[Pudmuddle]

Wow tigerlily, you have a LOT going on.

Hopefully one of the vets on the board will be along soon to post some resources and great advice to you. There are lots of good people here who have been through the wringer themselves and will be upfront and honest with you. So be prepared to answer the hard questions.

I would be insulted if my H left a bag of laundry for me to do, if I had time. If he needs his laundry washed let him do it!

And he is expecting you to cater to everything he is doing right now.

One thing you might do is to ask him to stop telling you about OW. That is not good for anyone's pysche.

You can be firm but polite with these requests.

I feel for you tiger, you have so much going on. Take care.