So lost

[KarenR]

I am sorry for your situation, too many folks don't realize what they have until they may lose it. There are things you can and need to do to show your wife you are committed to her and your family. I hope you will talk to a DB coach as they are experts in helping you come up with a very specific plan (your north star, if you will). You want to be sure you are bringing her closer and not pushing her any further away. Take care and I would look forward to hearing from you.