Thanks. I'm trying to be transparent. There is hardly any contact at all between us. We work in the same office about 20 feet away from each other. But she does not speak to me all day. We do walk out together each night as we share a parking pass for the garage at work. but, again, conversation is pretty non-existent. It usually goes something like me asking her how her day was and her giving 1 or 2 word answers. I'll tell her to have a goodnight when we leave the garage...she'll usually just say "you too". She does not call me at all outside of work. She'll usually let me come over to the house on the weekend for a couple of hours to spend time with our 2 cats. That's it. Not sure if there is anything else I should be doing...trying to give her the time and space she asked for, while praying I'll have the strength to handle the situation with grace once she serves me with the divorce papers.
