Originally Posted By: JFun51

Clearly not. I know what my contributions to our failing marriage have been. As BD happened, it was a major wake up call for me. I have said multiple times to W we shouldn't keep score and place blame.


You are correct....WE shouldn't

Wait a second....

Who is WE ???






Originally Posted By: JFun51
I am addressing my shortcomings with my kids and my W. As I have been struggling with a failing marriage for years, I have chosen to stick to my vows and honor my commitment unlike my W who has not.



In the same sentence that you denied doing this, you turn it around and dis-qualify it by doing it once again....

Do you blame her ??

Or are you just holding judgement on her, for doing this to you ????