It's still football season-when's my bye week?

[reachingHigher]

Hi Mm!

Sounds like you're staying good and busy and active. It rings of strength and positive vibes.

Re: November 1. I wasn't in your financial position but it does seem there should be a way to not let her spending affect you so much.

Yet, she perseveres with wanting to be a part of the family, but not a part of the family.

I feel like a broken record when I mention my sitch but its all I have to compare to. My H had the mantra "overnight isn't fast enough to get D from you" yet although he saw two or three lawyers he never hired one. I was the one, as you probably know, that found and retained a lawyer. It was what he wanted so we did it together.

Seems like such a blur....a year ago.

I tend to think that you shouldn't say anything about November 1. Others may disagree. And I don't have to pay your bills. These things take a long time and if she is going out with the family tonight, she is still engaged mentally in some ways.

You will have to eventually make a different move, but my gut feeling is now isn't the right timing? But it's better to go with what you can live with. Just thought I'd say since you asked for suggestions.

So glad you can enjoy football and you have a lot of interests.

Hang in there!
rH