I finally made my way through all the info you've provided, Cadet! Spent many a night reading and reading. I'm still reading.
I have a question for anyone dealing with a MLC'er.. So my H moved out at the beginning of August. Since then, he has not contacted me one time. No text, no call, no email, NOTHING. I messaged him online about 3 times, and called him once. He talked with me each time, was nice to me each time. Didn't discuss our relationship at all, just general chit chats.
Has anyone else gone this long without hearing one single peep from their spouse?
He hasn't yet filed any separation or divorce paperwork either, so I just have no idea what's going on in his mind at all.
I don't really know what to do at this point.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
