H came home today and said he took a full time job with a friends commercial construction. A little back story. H has been studying to be a paramedic firefighter for the last 3 years. He has been very stressed to say the least. He has a medic job although part time. He has applied about 50 times as a ff/medic with no luck. Very hard to get in. H finally got a job and with through all the background garb and was set to start the academy when they called and said the city put a freeze. ugh. H's medic job is planning a strike and he gets very few hours..thus the new job. H couldn't wait to tell me he signed up for all the out of town jobs..Said he couldn't wait to get out of here. I just said okay and left it at that.Wanted to say what about your kids? But held back. I will never understand why they feel the need to remind you they are done everyday. To convince me or them? I know in his head he is done.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
