You got it Even though you are almost totally detached and in doubt if you would ever R with W, the fact is still, that we are on a divorcebusting path here! My point was not to give you hope – my point was to make you leave a little crack open and not completely dismiss any chance of R.
The way you put it, safe, grounded and hoping, is just fine, Don’t protect yourself so much that you can’t see what is happening through the walls. Don’t ground yourself so much that you forget to live Don’t hope so much that you get disappointed
Just do exactly what you do and don’t make any unalterable decisions for now Live the life you want and see what the future brings you.
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.