I think you handled the b-day well.

The birthday's, holiday's, anniversaries, etc. use to s*ck so bad for me and cause me so much anxiety the first year.

Last week was my stbx's birthday and it was the first time in 20 years that I didn't wish her a Happy Birthday at all.

Onward we go.. Xo

Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley