Need some advice! I know that H is never going to remove OW from his life. She is so involved in his business, which he lovs, that I don't ever see him removing her completely from his life even if he decided he wanted yo work on our marriage. The site of her or mention of her name makes me sick.
I don't want a divorce. But I don't want to be with a man that would keep ow in our lives despite the fact that he knows how much pain it causes me. Am I just wasting my time?
I know the answer is that this process is not about him it is about me. I have to detach and learn who I am and what I want to change. I have come so far in understanding my part in the demise of our marriage and feel like a completely different and happy person. I am having a hard time dealing with the A.
H is a low maintenance WAS so he is completely content sitting on the fence and enjoying both lives. I have seen so many positives in myself this past few months. I am ready to not have OW in my life and I don't know how yo do that unless I get a d. I hate that so many of us are in this switch.
