One giant leap forward! - Part 8

[Fartiltre]

Good to hear from you!

Yeah I'm still here. Just doing my thing and seeing where I land.

Head up – feet down! You are doing fine!

I have been thinking about what you said about giving W some crumbs, what Sandi said about she is still plaing games and what sayitaintso said about not deciding anytime soon and seeing what unfolds.

Case is that I agree with Me but also with Sandi and SIAS and at the same time I do not see these as opposites – in fact I see them as working just fine together.

I still believe that you should carry on what you are doing! Live YOUR life but don’t shut the door totally towards W. Keep working you, be the greatest of fathers and keep on chatting / dating. Consider yourself a single and your W likewise.

If you feel attracted towards her – then, in time, get a date, but without deciding anything. Like you would properly do with any other woman. Do it without changing the life you live and that you seem to be so happy with for now.
Sandi has been so right many times about your W and I think she is again. At the same time your W could change if you stay withdrawn this time. IMO you can do this even if you interact, talk and have good times. I believe this will come naturally to you now simply because of the place you are in.
I would also throw her a crumb now and then. Stay 10 min when you interact, say a nice thing about her when you skype with children. The “That’s look relaxing” was great IMO.

In other words the texting, pictures, skype – her being nice could easily just be her trying to control you – so do not let her! Just be you and see where things take you from here.

As time goes by I start to think what I need from her for me to try again. No answers yet, not sure if there is any.

They will come to you - if needed!

I'd like to be the forum more but it doesn't feel like the right place for me right now.
I will keep reporting back.

I think I understand – next level!
I hope you will keep reporting – and do the FB!

Enjoy the day!

F