He is not going to his sister's? How do you feel about Thanksgiving?

Last year I was invited to SIL for Christmas dinner (the week beforehand) I declined, I didn't fell comfortable.

It's all about what you want, I think. You could do a dinner at home if you like.

Ask H if he would like to take boys? But that leaves you by yourself...

Me? I would do my own dinner....new traditions and all wink

That's what the three of us did last Christmas