One thing that does trouble me is the affection.... Most days we kiss each other goodbye and welcome home but that is pretty much as far as it goes (bar 'xx's on emails/texts. I often worry that i am pressurizing her although she does instigate the kissing too and on my down days i tend to not kiss her which i think she notices, i do this as i think it feels so false. Part of me thinks we should only be doing this if we are truly working well together and i should quit doing it for now and carry on with my own stuff but on the other hand i also worry that by stopping it will only worsen things. Just to make it clear here i am not discussing sex at all just affection between a man and wife which is the biggest thing i miss. This morning my wife goes off to work very early and both kids come in and snuggle up with me for a while so things aren't all bad Thanks H
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work
