Originally Posted By: Positivespin
Some VERY valuable advice given to me to help me respond to W - Dont stand in her way but make sure she does all the heavy lifting.

She wants a D- she files
She wants a mediation - she makes the calls
She wants a separation- she moves out

Please remember, the end goal is to have her make the decision, on her own, to come back. She needs to go on her journey and it will take time-lots of time.



positivespin,

This was a great way of putting it. Thanks for taking the time to post.

TB


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Me: 37 W: 37
M: 11
D:5 S:2
IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13
EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13
W moved out 05/14